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Monday, August 24, 2009

Back Home

I wrote this last week and posted it on our mission team's blog after returning home from my sixth trip to Haiti.

Back Home

As I was driving around Hudsonville and Jenison yesterday and today, I wondered how many of our team members are experiencing some reverse culture shock.

Who was in awe of being able to put our toothbrush or our drinking glass under the running water from the faucet instead of having to use filtered water? Or did you take it for granted?

Who noticed the smooth roads with gradual hills? Who was amazed at being able to go over 35 mph on the roads? Did you appreciate our wide roads where there are obvious rules in place for safety? Or did you just go about your business as if it were no big deal?

How many of you were missing the chance to go and cuddle a baby or small child whenever they had the desire to? I know I was!

Who was thankful for our families and for our own individual situations no matter what they are? How many of us thanked God that we never had to make the decision to bring a family member to an orphanage or 'home' because we couldn't feed them? Or haven't you stopped to think about all of the kids who are waiting for their forever families?

How many of us came home and are thankful for our jobs when we have just returned from a country with a 60% unemployment rate? Or did you complain about having to get up early and go to work?

How many of us are thankful for our schools and educational system that 'works' the majority of the time? Or are we dreading the start of another school year?

How many of us came home grateful that we have a family doctor we can call when we don't feel well? Or are thankful we have modern medical facilities and hospitals we can trust when we are seriously ill? Or did we come home thinking we deserved what our health care system has to offer?

How many of us returned to our air-conditioned homes and vehicles without another thought about how the people elsewhere manage without this luxury?

These are just some of the things I have been thankful for since returning home early Tuesday morning. I am interested to hear what else you have noticed 'more' of since being home.



Monday, November 17, 2008

Found a Few More

I went to my son's bookshelf and found a few more books:

Running the Road to ABC by Denize Lauture. This story is about Haitian kids and how far they run to school everyday.

Ben's Trumpet by Rachel Isadora. This Caldecott Honor book is about an AA boy who sits on his fire escape at night and listens to Jazz music.The black and white illustrations are impressive.

My Brother Martin: a sister remembers by Christine King Farris. This book was written by Martin Luther King's older sister as she shares her childhood memories of her brother.

Heroes in Black History: true stories from the lives of Christian Heroes. My son loves this book! It includes stories about black heroes along with a Bible verse and discussion questions. This book is geared toward kids ages 6-12.

I will have to check the basement bookshelf next and see if some books have migrated down there.


Back again

After a long absence away, I decided I better take some time to post again. I saw from another blog I read that I have not posted in five months! Wow, where does the time fly to?

A lot has happened since June--a couple of camping trips, sending another daughter off to college, and hosting another Haitian Adoption Gathering. After talking to many adoptive parents and answering many questions about books, discipline, hair care, etc. I decided an 'easy' way to get back into blogging would be to address some of these questions. So today's blog is a list of books for kids that deal with adoption, race issues, etc. These are books that are in our own personal library.

In random order:
Happy to be Nappy by Bell Hooks. This book is about the joy and beauty of 'nappy' hair.

The Skin you Live in by Michael Tyler. This book is about the different kinds of skin out there and what you can do in your skin, how skin is different and how skin is the same.

Happy Adoption Day by John McCutcheon. This book includes lyrics and music to a song. It is a celebration of adoption.

We are all Alike, We are all Different by the Cheltenham Elementary School Kindergartners. This book written by children for children, reinforces multicultural and anti-bias learning and appreciation.

I Love my Hair! by Natasha Anastasia Tarpley. This book is about a little girl learning to love the different styles her hair can be in.

Amazing Grace by Mary Hoffman is a story about a black girl who wants to play Peter Pan in their class play. Grace does play Peter Pan even though she is a girl and is black.

The Lord's Prayer by Tim Ladwig. This is an amazingly illustrated book! Tim Ladwig has also has done this with Psalm Twenty-Three, Morning Has Broken, and Silent Night: the song and it's story.

Whoever you Are by Mem Fox. A very good multi-cultural book about how children are alike all over the world even though they have families, go to school, experience joy, and speak different languages.

Something Beautiful by Sharon Dennis Wyeth. Even though the little girl in this book lives in a neighborhood where there can be scary sights on the sidewalk, she decides to look for something beautiful in it.

Josephine's Imagination by Arnold Dobrin. Josephine is a Haitian child who goes to the market each week with her mother.

The Wonderful Way Home: an adventure in Haiti by Stephen Dunn. This is a story of two Haitian children who have an adventure while doing the laundry for their mother.

Bright Eyes, Brown Skin by Cheryl Willis Hudson. This book is a simple book following some kids through their day at a preschool. I believe this author also has other books that feature black babies and children.

The Extra-Thankful Thanksgiving by Kim Watson. This is a Little Bill book about what he is thankful for, collecting food for food baskets (sharing) and having dinner with their friends and family.

The Colors of Us by Karen Katz. This book explores the differences in skin colors.

Masai and I by Viginia Kroll.This story is about an African American little girl who compares her life here to living in Eastern Africa as part of the Masai tribe.

Shades of Black:a celebration of our children. This book explores differences in skin color, hair type and eye color. As it does this it uses terms and photos that are beautiful.

Abby by Jeannette Caines. A story about an AA little girl named Abby who loves her baby book and hearing again and again about how she was adopted.

Forever Fingerprints: an amazing discovery for adopted children by Sherrie Eldridge. This book helps adopted kids feel connected to both their birth families and adopted families.' In order for our kids to be part of our families they had to have been given up.' 'In claiming all parts of our children (their past, present and future) out circle of love and understanding is expanded, not diminished.'

The Day I was Rich by Bill Cosby. In thisbook,  Little Bill thinks he has found the biggest diamond in the world, the dreams he and his friends have when they become rich and the disappointment the feel when they realize it is not a diamond.

Thank You, World by Alice B. McGinty. This book is about the joys of childhood the whole world over featuring eight different kids from eight different countries.

The Seven Candles for Kwanzaa by Andrea Davis Pickney. This is a good book if you want to explore what Kwanzaa is and what it stands for.

Cendrillon by Robert San Souci. The story of Cinderella told from the god-mother's point of view. It includes many French Creole words and phrases with beautiful illustrations.

A Mother for Choco by Keiko Kasza. A wonderful story of a little bird who goes looking for a mother who looks like him. What he discovers is that a mother does not need to look like him in order to take care of him as a mother would.

Whew! That is enough for now! Happy reading days to you and your kids!




Thursday, June 05, 2008

Catching Up

I am all packed and ready to leave for Haiti this afternoon. We filled 22 suitcases with donations and VBS supplies last night, weighed each one and loaded them in a trailer to transport them to Chicago this afternoon.

'A' had her last day of school yesterday. 'I' has his last day of school today. After I pick him up at noon we will follow tradition and go out for ice cream.

Here are some highlights of the last month:

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Soccer season has come and gone. Daddy was 'I's coach again this spring with our friend Paige serving as assistant coach. Those boys have come a long way in the past year.

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'K' had her last concert with the Grand Rapids Youth Symphony. After playing with them for five years she is ready to move on to playing in college this fall.

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'A' participated in her kindergarten program. They sang songs and recited their Bible verses corresponding to each letter of the alphabet.

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Yours truly played the piano for the singing. 'A' loved her teacher this year! I also received my Mother's Day gift from 'A' while we were at school that day.

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'I' finally lost the loose tooth that has been hanging from his upper gum the last few months.

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We celebrated birthdays and Mother's Day. 'E' (my baby for 12 years!) turned 16!

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'K' and 'E' had their last high school orchestra concert of the year.

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'K' presented a thank you gift to their director. A few of the other seniors also said a few words.

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'K' had senior awards night where she was presented the Jonathon Houseward Bible Award.

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Then came graduation. 'K' was co-validictorian so she gave part of a speech.

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Until next time...

 


Friday, May 30, 2008

Currently Listening
Glory
By Made Popular By: Selah & Nichole Nordeman
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A Need for Prayer

 

I have discovered a huge prayer need. The Christian singing group Selah is one of my all-time favorites. The lead singer is Todd Smith who is married to Angie. They have four daughters, one of whom  passed away shortly after birth about seven weeks ago. Throughout all of their sorrowing they have bared their souls to their family and friends by way of Angie's blog. They have shared their struggles, their tears and their joys.

Todd's sister Nichol sang with Selah until she got married and her husband graduated from seminary. Nichol and her husband Greg recently had their second child--a son named Luke. Tuesday night when Nichol went to check on him he was not breathing. The paramedics were unable to revive him.

Not only is this family thrust in sorrow again, it is opening up a pretty raw wound for Todd and Angie. The whole family needs a lot of thoughts and prayers. If you want to read more you can go here to Angie's blog: http://audreycaroline.blogspot.com/  A fair warning to you is to have Kleenex handy when you read this blog.

Thanks for praying.



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